DECIDED
You already know what you want.
So why does the decision feel impossible?
By Annmarie Murray & Aoife McNickle
€100
Barna golf club, galway
20th june 2026, 10am-1pm
You don't need more information.
You don't need another strategy session or a colour coded planner. (Though if you're like us you have five of them. Filled with brilliant insights and lists that somehow never get shorter.)
You don't need to push harder or think longer or wait until things calm down.
You need to understand why you keep looping.
And then you need to clear it.
DECIDED is a 3-hour in-person workshop on June 20th.
For the woman who knows what she wants but can't seem to trust herself enough to choose it.
This is where the loop ends.
This is where you stop reacting to your life and start choosing it.
If this feels familiar…
You've been sitting on this decision for longer than you'd like to admit.
You've asked everyone you trust. You've researched it thoroughly. You've meditated on it, journalled it out, maybe even pulled a tarot card.
And you're still in the same place.
Not because you don't know the answer.
Because there's a part of your nervous system that is genuinely afraid of you making the move. So instead of choosing, it keeps you busy. Researching. Scrolling. Waiting for a clarity that never quite arrives.
Round and round and round.
Here's what's actually happening underneath that loop —
Your nervous system doesn't feel safe enough to choose. And there's a reason it doesn't. It's not random. It's not a character flaw. It's encoded in your design.
Most women have never been shown how they are actually built to make decisions. So they default to their head. To logic. To what everyone else thinks. To what looks right on paper.
And they wonder why it never feels settled
HERE'S WHAT WE KNOW:
Clarity doesn't come from more thinking.
It comes from regulation. From knowing your own design. From clearing the energetic residue of every time you've overridden your own knowing to keep everyone else comfortable.
That's what DECIDED is built to do.
In this workshop you will..
1. Regulate
DECIDED is designed to help you come out of that freeze state.
Through bioenergy healing and somatic nervous system work, we help your body come out of the freeze state that's been keeping you stuck.
Because you cannot think your way to a decision your nervous system doesn't feel safe enough to make.
2. DECODE
Here's the piece most workshops miss entirely.
You have a specific way you are designed to make decisions. It's written into your Human Design chart. And it's almost certainly not how you've been making them.
In DECIDED we introduce you to your personal decision making authority — the internal signal that is always available to you and has never once steered you wrong. You just haven't been shown how to hear it yet.
This is the part that makes everything else finally make sense
3. Decide
Leave with one clear decision and one next step.
Not a life overhaul. Not a vision board.
One aligned decision — with the resistance cleared through EFT tapping so you can actually follow through this time.
From "I should" to "I've decided."
What makes this different?
This is not a workshop where you feel inspired for 24 hours and go home to the exact same patterns.
This is not a sound bath where you feel better for an evening and wake up Monday back in the same loop.
We are both genuinely fed up with women leaving healing spaces feeling temporarily lighter but with nothing actually changing.
DECIDED is designed for one outcome.
You leave with a decision made. Resistance cleared. Next step chosen.
Something real to carry into your actual life.
MEET YOUr GUIDES
Annmarie Murray
Aoife McNICKLE
Annmarie Murray
Energy Strategist & Human Design Decoder
Annmarie works with women in business who are capable, self aware, and quietly exhausted from operating against their own design.
She has an almost inconvenient ability to see the pattern underneath the pattern — the specific encoded belief that keeps a woman looping, over-giving, and overriding her own knowing.
Through bioenergy work, Human Design, and nervous system support she creates the conditions for something to finally shift at the root. Not temporarily. Actually.
Her work is for the woman who has tried everything and is ready to understand why nothing has stuck — and what to do about it.
Sustainable Healing
with Aoife McNickle
intentional living coach
Aoife embodies the truth that living more authentically, more sustainably and more simply reduces stress and overwhelm.
She helps you figure out what's actually important to you — underneath the noise, the obligations, and the life that looks fine on paper — and empowers you to prioritise it.
Her presence in this workshop is the permission slip to slow down long enough to hear yourself again.
Together we created DECIDED because we believe real change doesn't come from pushing harder. It comes from getting quiet enough to hear yourself — and clear enough to trust what you hear.
€100
Barna golf club, galway
20th june 2026, 10am-1pm
If you know something in your life needs to shift, this is your sign to stop waiting for the perfect time.
The perfect time is a myth invented by overwhelmed women and printer companies selling planners.
You don't need more advice.
You need enough space and safety to hear your own answer.
FAQ
What if I don't know what decision I need to make?
That's exactly why you're coming. The workshop will help you get clear on what matters most right now — and from that clarity the decision will emerge naturally.
What if I can't make the full 3 hours?
We ask that you commit to the full workshop. The structure is designed to take you through regulation → reconnection → decision in that order. Arriving late or leaving early disrupts your own process.
What should I bring?
A yoga mat, a blanket, and something comfortable to wear. We'll provide water, light refreshments — homemade by Aoife and genuinely delicious — and everything else you need.
What about the Human Design piece — do I need to know anything about it?
Nothing at all. We introduce it in the room in a way that is immediately practical and personal to you. You'll leave knowing exactly how you are designed to make decisions — which is frankly something everyone should have been told years ago.
What if I'm nervous about energy work or EFT tapping?
Everything is explained and guided. All you need is to be open to trying something different.
Will there be follow-up support after the workshop?
Yes. We're creating a follow up online session two weeks later to help you build on what you've started. Both Annmarie and Aoife also offer 1:1 sessions if you want to go deeper after the event
Any other questions send one of us a message on Instagram and we will be happy to help.
You can’t change what you can’t see